Why stick with a non-thing?
Shopping has become not only a central activity in modern life, it's become central in our interactions with others. Christmas, Easter, birthdays, plus many other days that have been created for various things - these are all occasions where finding the right gift can become more important than the occasion itself. Of course it's nice to give gifts, but many of us have so many things already, we don't really need extra stuff to clutter up our homes and lives with. And then there's the environmental impact. Physical products use up valuable resources and are responsible for carbon emissions during their manufacture, distribution and disposal. Based on a range of data, we've calculated that the carbon embedded within an average product is approximately 9.73 kg per item. See here
for the methodology behind this figure.
It's much nicer (and much easier on the environment) to give meaningful gifts that involve spending time with someone, or offering something they really need, like babysitting for them so they can have a night off, or giving them a massage. Or even treating yourself to a pampering session or a trip to the theatre - all of these things create the kind of memories and positive experiences that you don't get with buying new gadgets.
Non-things to do
There are many non-things around that can be done, here is just a small selection.
Give a non-thing gift:
Give a gift that will change someone's life:
Changing the Present
http://www.changingthepresent.org/
World Vision Alternative Gifts
http://www.worldvision.org.uk/server.php?show=nav.34
Alternative Gifts International
http://www.alternativegifts.org/
Cancer Research Gifts
http://www.sendandgive.org/virtual-gifts/index.asp
Sponsor a child:
Actionaid
http://www.actionaid.org.uk/100044/sponsor_a_child_today.html
Everychild
http://www.everychild.org.uk/content/Child%20sponsorship
SOS Children's Villages
http://www.soschildrensvillages.org.uk/sponsor-a-child/
Alternative Gift Lists
http://www.alternativegiftregistry.org/why.php
Gifts of Time
Time Banks
http://www.timebanks.co.uk/
Community Service Volunteers
http://www.csv.org.uk/
Volunteer Match
http://www.volunteermatch.org
United Nations Online Volunteering
http://www.onlinevolunteering.org
Gift Experiences
http://www.buyagift.co.uk/
http://www.redletterdays.co.uk/
Learn a new skill
http://www.hotcourses.com/
http://www.learndirectadvice.net/findacourse/
Add to your life skills
Learn first aid:
http://www.firstaidtraining.co.uk/
St John's Ambulance: http://www.sja.org.uk/sja/training-courses.aspx
British Red Cross http://www.redcross.org.uk/TLC.asp?id=76599
Learn Sign Language:
http://www.british-sign.co.uk/